Betsy,
I don't see you on the member list for radiantbreakfast. I am guessing you didn't quite finish joining the list. When you join, there's a button down at the bottom to finish the enrollment and it's possible you might not have clicked that. It also can take up to 48 hours for your membership to show up so if you just joined today that could be another reason.

You should not have to go to the web site every day to download the messages. When you go to the web site does it say you are a member?

Kitty