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What a wonderful fall week it has been. The leaves are changing, the air is bright, the sky is blue, blue and everything is settling in. I love this time of year!

These classes will begin the week of October 22, 2007. Please click on the name of the class you wish to join and it will take you to the registration page:

Feelings is a new special class for members of the community who have less experience in making sense of feelings in a healthy way. You will get language and an opportunity to do some role play. It will be safe and fun. Those of you in the UK are especially welcome to this class. This is a class to learn how to recognize feelings and find vocabulary to describe them.

Doing The Program on a Budget is a special free class for those of you with limited funding who are trying to make do. Come hear some fun ideas to maintain your humor and find tasty and inexpensive solutions.

Resource Center Tour is another one of our free walking tours through the website. This one takes you through the resource center. Explore all the nooks and crannies and discover things you did not know were there.

Store Tour is a free guided tour of the store. David will be leading this class so if you want to get to know the guy that makes it all work, come sign up. This is his first teaching experience, so you can show your support for the work he does to keep you happy.

These classes will begin the week of October 31, 2007. Please click on the name of the class you wish to join and it will take you to the registration page:

Handling the Holidays: Thanksgiving is a special class to help you prepare for the holdiays in a centered and reflective way. We love this class. I hope you will join us.

Step 2 Journal: Skillful Use is the next level of journaling. This is for those of you who know *how* and want to learn what to do with your data. This class shows you how to interpret what you have written in an exciting and pragmatic way.

Step 3: Three Meals is one of our core classes. This is a skill-based class. If you want to learn the baby steps of a successful step 3, come join us. This class is ALWAYS fun.

The class schedule is on line. Click here to see what is planned. Please do not sign up for classes that are not yet scheduled.

A number of you have asked me how the classes work. Check the class list page for more information on this. The classes are done online and you do not have to be at your computer at any set time. It does not matter whether you are in the US, Europe, the Far East or Australia, you simply respond on your own time. And although I advertise that the classes are one or two weeks, sometimes we are a little flexible and they may run longer.

And please go read the questions and answers before you write to me. If you have trouble getting through the process, write the tech forum.

Please feel free to pass this week's newsletter on to your friends and family. Don't forget to let me know what you like and would like to see me cover.

Be sure to visit our Radiant Recovery® website and Community Forum regularly.

Warmly,
Kathleen

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October 22, 2007
** Quote From Kathleen **


Rather than responding to problems or roadblocks with tears, you will start anticipating and solving problems.

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** Testimonial for the Week**

Karen, Step 7


I went out with some girlfriends to see the Atonement at the pics. We arranged to meet at 6:30 for something to eat first. This being too late for me - I had a shake and ryvita at about 4:00 pm as a planned snack. It was decided to eat at the Italian next to the cinema.

We went in and all my pals ordered large glasses of wine and I had a big glass of water whilst we browsed the menu. I quickly found the main courses that were neither pasta or rissoto or pizza and selected from the 5 dishes there. I joined in chatting and laughing and thought how easy it was for me. They were all wondering what to have and my thought process went something along the lines of .....umm, that sounds nice, ah wine in the sauce, no. Ohh chicken with...ah served with rice and wine in the sauce again. I'll skip that. Ohh...cod in tomato and olives with green beans and new potatos - perfect! Protein, veggies and browns And I like cod. Great. I'll have that. Put menu down choice made. Everyone else had to read the entire menu LOL.

We all laughed when the meal was served. My little place setting looked just so "healthy" with its mineral water and delicious main dish. Then afterwards I ordered a decaf coffee before going off to the film.

I had a great evening - and realised I love going out with my pals - even if they all do drink wine, eat pasta and have desert as part of the night out! I don't need to do that to be part of the gang - I'm just me and that is fine. Oh - and the film was great too. (smile)

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**Radiant Kitchen**

By Naomi Muller, Step 7, author of Nutritious and Delicious Cookbook.


This is from the Radiant Recipes Cookbook.

BRAISED RED CABBAGE WITH APPLES AND PEARS

  • 1 medium head red cabbage, shredded
  • 1/2 c. diced onion
  • 2 firm pears, peeled, cored and chopped into 1/2 inch dice
  • 2 sweet apples (Delicious, Fuji, Gala), peeled, cored and chopped into 1/2 inch dice
  • 2 T. olive oil
  • 2 T. raspberry vinegar*
  • 1/2 c. unsweetened apple juice
  • 1/4 tsp. black pepper
  • salt to taste
  • 1/2 tsp. marjoram
  • 1/2 tsp. thyme
  • 1/2 tsp. caraway seed (optional)
In a large dutch oven, heat olive oil over medium high heat. Add onion and saute briefly, until onion becomes translucent. Add apple and pear dice and saute until fruit loses its raw appearance, 3 - 5 minutes. Add cabbage (in batches, if necessary), pepper, marjoram, thyme and optional caraway. Toss to coat cabbage with other ingredients. Quick saute until cabbage loses its raw state but is not soft. Add vinegar and juice and cover. Let steep over medium heat until all the flavors are blended, 5 - 10 minutes. Uncover; taste and adjust seasonings, if you wish less liquid in dish, reduce juices over high heat until mixture reaches desired consistency. Makes 6 - 8 servings.

Note: If raspberry vinegar is unavailable, substitute with another "fruity" vinegar, such as apple cider, golden, balsamic, sherry, or red wine vinegar. Do not use distilled white vinegar, as the taste will be too acidic.

Naomi's note: never use white vinegar in cooking - but it is great for cleaning your kitchen :-)

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**Your Last Diet: More Than What You Think**

YLDonline is a membership program run directly by Kathleen DesMaisons herself.


I just had my check in at the gym. I have lost 12 pounds and 10 inches in the last 3 months. This is exciting news. I love really engaging the program and getting results. I am going to be sharing the insider’s track in chat this week. I look forward to seeing you there!

If you are not a YLD member, come and join us. Click here if you are ready to change your life or just plain ole have fun.
 


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**Radiant Recovery Store **

David manages the Radiant Recovery Store. He is also Kathleen’s oldest son.



Don't forget to order wild rice for your Thanksgiving stuffing.
And order the little rice cookbook to go with your rice. I know that Kathleen uses hers all the time...it is all spotted with yummy things.
And make sure to get Radiant Recipes if you don't have it yet. It is a super resource for the Holidays.


Please send questions and suggestions. I love hearing from you and truly want to help you do your program better.

 
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**Our Online Groups**


Hi, I’m Jeannie, the liaison for the Radiant Step 6 list. Perhaps you are steady on the first five steps and contemplating your sugar detox. Or you may already be on step six but struggling. You may be wondering why you are bored or restless, since sugar detox was supposed to solve everything--wasn’t it? Or maybe you’d like to share your excitement about reaching this milestone in your program. If so, come join us on the Step 6 list! We offer support and encouragement in achieving a successful sugar detox and in holding tight until everything settles down afterward. We are learning more all the time about this fascinating step and how profoundly it transforms our bodies and brains.

Or come to the group page to see all our groups. http://www.radiantrecovery.com/list_serves.htm


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**Step 1**
Kathleen DesMaisons, Ph.D.


Ok, that is a great start

Ok, that is a great start. Let's think now about shifting into Step One. There are 4 parts to Step One:

 

Ÿ    Eat enough protein for your weight

Ÿ    Eat a complex carbohydrate

Ÿ    Eat within one hour of getting up

Ÿ    Eat breakfast every day

 

You will not need to jump from nothing to all in one step. Let's break these parts up into a sequence that you can actually do.

 

Ÿ    Eat breakfast every day

 

Starting tomorrow, you will have breakfast every morning. Plan now what you can have for tomorrow's breakfast. Make it something you like and can manage. If you will fix it at home, make sure you have what you need in the house. If you will go out for breakfast, think through how much time you will need and where you will go.

Do not scare yourself. If you are used to having just coffee, have your coffee first so you get the caffeine hit and are not cranky. If you cannot stand the idea of eating, just get a bagel with cream cheese or something really simple.

Ÿ    Eat enough protein for your weight

 

Ok, do this one in two phases. First simply make sure you get some protein. Use your fist as a guideline: have a fist-sized portion of protein at breakfast. Obviously, if you weigh more or have a bigger fist, you will need to eat more protein. The fist-sized portion applies to protein that you can actually hold in your hand. So milk wouldn't count as a good meal protein. Cottage cheese does. Protein foods include

Eggs

Meat

Fish

Beans

Cheese

Protein Powders

 

Your body needs protein for a whole number of things. Your body needs protein to produce amino acids that run your body. They build and rebuild cells and repair things that are broken. For sugar-sensitive people, one particular amino acid, tryptophan is particularly critical. Tryptophan is the raw material that your body uses to make serotonin. Without sufficient raw material from tryptophan, your serotonin factory can't make what you need. Protein supplies the tryptophan that is the raw material.

 

This is NOT a high protein plan. It is a regular and consistent protein plan.

 

How much protein should you have?

 

As you master getting some protein into every breakfast, you can being to look at how much you actually need for your body weight. If you divide your total body weight in half, you will get the approximate number of grams of protein you should have in a day. For example if you weigh 150 pounds, you would have about 75 grams of protein in a day. Divide the result by three to find out how much protein you should have at each meal. Your breakfast will include that number of grams of protein each morning.

 

 So a 150-pound person would be having approximately 25 grams of protein at each meal. If you are a very large person (over 250 pounds), you will want to have less than proportion because the ratio of your body fat to your lean muscle mass is so much higher.  Have no more than 42 grams of protein at breakfast regardless of your weight.

 


Work out how much protein you need for breakfast:

 

My weight = ___________

 

Half my weight = ______________  This equals the grams of protein I need every day.

 

One third of the total grams for the day  = __________This is what I need at each meal.

 

I need _________ grams of protein for breakfast.

 

 

Ok, terrific. Let's do one more exercise to make sure you understand that process. Circle the best breakfast protein gram estimate for each body weight given:

 

 

Weight

 

 

 

150 pounds

 25 grams

 20 grams

35 grams

180 pounds

 30 grams

 20 grams

90 grams

240 pounds

120 grams

 40 grams

30 grams

400 pounds

 66 grams

100 grams

42 grams

280 pounds

 46 grams

 65 grams

43 grams

300 pounds

150 grams

 42 grams

30 grams

190 pounds

 95 grams

 42 grams

32 grams

120 pounds

 20 grams

 32 grams`

15 grams

 

 


How does this translate to food?

 

 How much *food* you should have to get the number of grams of protein you want for your meal plan.  You may remember from high school that there are 28 grams in one ounce. Don't be fooled into thinking if you need 28 grams of protein, you will just eat one ounce of meat. Even though 28 grams equals one ounce, grams of protein do NOT equal ounces of food. 

 

A food item is weighed in ounces.  Each ounce of that food contains grams of fat, carbohydrates, and water.  So, each protein food source includes different amounts of protein Ð measured in grams.  Dense protein sources (meat, chicken, fish) contain more grams of protein per ounce than not so dense sources (milk, yogurt). In our program, we mainly count the proteins from dense sources to maximize your body's healing and keep things really simple. When you are getting started, you can count the less dense ones like milk and yogurt as well.

 

The more dense protein sources contain somewhere between 7 and 9 grams of protein in an ounce.  So for example, a 4 ounce chicken breast has about 32 grams of protein, but 4 ounces of tofu has only 16 grams of protein.

 

 

 


Here is a list of typical protein contents for many of the protein foods you might eat:

 

Meats and fish:

There is about 10 grams per ounce of a standard cut of meat.  Ground meat gives about 30 grams of protein in a ¼ pound of meat.  This is true for beef, pork, lamb or fish.

Poultry:

Chicken and turkey have about 20 grams of protein in a 3 ounce cutlet or about 30 grams in a ½ a chicken breast.

Eggs:

Eggs have 7-9 grams of protein per egg depending on the size.

Beans:

Beans have 8-9 grams of protein per ½ cup cooked serving.

 

 

If you are a bigger person and need more protein, this may seem hard at first. The trick is to mix and match your protein. So you might have eggs and sausage  or make an omlette with cottage cheese in it.

 

To get you started, here is a list of breakfast foods with their protein content.

Cheddar cheese 3.4 oz

25

2 TBS protein powder

24

Sliced turkey - 4 oz

20

3 eggs

19

Sausage 3 links

15-45 (read labels)

Cottage cheese 4 oz

14

Skim milk - 12 oz

12

Peanut butter - 2 TBS

8

Yogurt - 8 oz

8

 

Let's play with this and see what will work for you.

 



Gretel, the liaison for the recovery list and the webmaster, puts it all together
Naomi gathers the recipes.
David, who runs the Radiant Recovery® Store talks about what new products we have.

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©2007 by Kathleen DesMaisons . All rights reserved. You are free to use or transmit this article to your ezine or website as long as you leave the content unaltered and use this attribution: "By Kathleen DesMaisons, Ph.D. of Radiant Recovery®. Please visit Kathleen's website at http://www.radiantrecovery.com for additional resources on sugar sensitivity and healing addiction." Please notify me at kathleen@radiantrecovery.com to let me know where the material will appear.

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