May 18, 2009


Hi {!firstname_fix}

Here is a fun picture of Kathy, Gretel's daughter, christening their new couch by reading our favorite book. Somehow this picture represents the best of what we all hope for...that the healing story which has meant so much in our own lives will pass on down to our children. It just made me smile.


Well, we are just waiting for all our folk to arrive for Radiant Ranch this week. It is always a time of wonderful anticipation. We get to reconnect with old friends and meet wonderful new people. Some ranchers have been coming for 10 years which is pretty amazing. These old timers have seen the program grow from the forum and one online list (the depression list) to the vast network that it is today.

I think what we love most is the sense of sharing the joy of our collective growth. We have been through so much together...death, loss, birth, growth, life really. The journey becomes more than just doing the food, and doing the food becomes more than just the food. I am grateful for this time, grateful for our getting together and having Ranch.


This class will begin Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Please click on the name of the class you wish to join and it will take you to the registration page:

Radiant Store Tour (1 week) is a free guided tour of the store. David will be leading this class so if you want to get to know the guy that makes it all work, come sign up.

This class will begin Wednesday, May 27, 2009. Please click on the name of the class you wish to join and it will take you to the registration page:

Getting Started With Limited Funds (1 week) is a special free class for those of you with limited funding who are trying to make do. Come hear some fun ideas to maintain your humor and find tasty and inexpensive solutions.

If you are on disability or low income (your household income is less that $1000 a month), you may take classes for free if you get certified. I have put the guidelines for certification on the class schedule page.

The class schedule is online. Click here to see what is planned. Please do not sign up for classes that are not yet scheduled.

A number of you have asked me how the classes work. Check the class list page for more information on this. And please go read the questions and answers before you write to me. If you have trouble getting through the process, write the tech forum.

Be sure to visit our Radiant Recovery website and Community Forum regularly.

Warmly,
Kathleen

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** Quote From Kathleen **


Beta-endorphin is immensely powerful. It can drive you inexorably toward deeper addiction - or raise your spirits to a level of health that you may never have known before.

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** Testimonial of the Week **


That 4:00 pm time was a tough one for me too. I found that if I had a planned healthy snack at 3:00 or 3:30 I was less likely to start munching at 4:00. But then my dinner and whole evening timing was thrown off by the snack just as much as it was by 4:00 pm munching. I finally realized that the 4:00 pm feeling was as much a restless feeling as anything else and if I changed activities (started doing laundry, tied up loose ends from the day, preparing things for tomorrow, etc.) it would go away.

The other thing I needed to do was make a commitment to having dinner on the table at a specific time every day. For me that's 6:00 pm. In order to accomplish that I have to start preparing or setting up by 4:30. So between changing activities at around 4:00 and beginning dinner preparation at 4:30 I finally was able to get over that 4:00 pm hump.

Soon after I started doing that I read something about using positive rituals to make the changes that you want in yourself. And I realized that it's one of the things I've been doing to make Step 3 work for me. I made a ritual for that tough 4:00 - 6:00 pm time period. I had previously made rituals for my waking (pretty much the same breakfast every morning within one hour of waking, eaten while reading my emails) and my lunch (12:00, the same lunch every day, eaten while reading fun blogs). Even if I'm having a wobble I find that I still can't bring myself to break my rituals, they've become so important to me. And of course, since the food is part of the rituals, I get right back on track. Isn't human nature amazing?

If exercising is making you hungrier you may really need that healthy snack at 3:00 pm or so.

I hope this helped.

Kindest regards,
-Donna



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** Radiant Ambassadors **


This week has been really exciting on the Ambassadors list!

Our very own Kat has been featured in an article about her recovery in First magazine. You may want to rush out and get yourself a copy now before they run out LOL! According to Mimssa, the magazine has a total audience of 4,336,000 women and ranks just under People magazine for circulation. Imagine all those people busily googling *Radiant Recovery* and discovering an answer (very big grin).

The article itself gives an insight into sugar sensitivity, mentions Kathleen twice, PNP, SARP and the fact that doctors don’t know about it (yet!).

If you want to read the article in full, it can be found at:

http://www.radiantrecovery.com/katarticle2.pdf

Selena


Come join us if you are excited about spreading the news.


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** Radiant Kitchen **


Curried Chicken Salad


Ingredients:

  • 2 boneless skinless chicken breasts
  • 2 large stalks of celery
  • 1 medium tart apple (I like Granny Smith)
  • 1 green onion
  • 3 TBS chopped almonds
  • 2 TBS sugarless mayonnaise (I use Trader Joe's)
  • 1/2 to 1 tsp. lemon juice
  • curry powder to taste


Process:

  1. Cook the chicken breasts (steam, bake, grill, etc.). Or you can use a rotisserie chicken from the deli
  2. Tear chicken into bite sized pieces.
  3. Chop the celery and onion. Core the apple and chop in bite sized pieces.
  4. Combine all of the above in a bowl with the nuts.


In a small bowl combine the mayo, lemon juice, and curry powder. I use about a teaspoon of curry powder but I like it strong. The more curry powder you use, the more lemon juice you will need to thin the dressing. If you aren't sure how much curry powder to use, start with a half-teaspoon. You can always add more, but you can't take it out if you get too much.

Put the curry mixture over the chicken and toss with a fork to coat everything. Chill for at least a couple of hours. I chill mine overnight.

2 servings

We often use this recipe as a base for a perfect travel meal. Add 2 cups of cooked brown rice and you are set. Change around anything in it to adjust for what you do or do not like. Take out the celery, add more nuts, add different nuts, add more mayonnaise, whatever you like.

For more great program-friendly recipes, check out these great cookbooks in the store.



Radiant Recovery
Cookbook


Naomi's Nutritious and
Delicious Cookbook

Sheila's
Kitchen Recipes

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** Your Last Diet - More Than What You Think **


I always love it when we have a new Weight Loss Readiness class because it reminds me how special and unique YLD is. You come in with stories of all the diets you have tried. You are diet experts....and still have not touched what is underneath all the dieting. You come to YLD and just, um, settle in. You listen, you learn, you engage. And this miracle begins. I hear it in your voice. You come to chat. At first it is a little disorienting, and then round about the 3rd chat you attend, you jump right in and offer your wisdom and thoughts. I find this so exciting. Thank you all for sharing your process with me.

If you are not a YLD member, come and join us. Click here if you are ready to change your life or just have some plain ol' fun!


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** Radiant Recovery® Store **

David manages the Radiant Recovery® Store. He is also Kathleen's oldest son.


JOURNALS! They are here! Yah... I just sent out a whole bunch yesterday. But if you are thinking you want one, order now. I LOVE sending them out. And I am excited about Ranch too. We get to set up a real store in the hotel so I have a chance to meet my favorite people in the world.
I will be introducing a few new products over the next couple of weeks. The first of these is Vitamin D capsules.You have been having a LOT of conversations on the lists about vitamin D deficiency. Kathleen had hers tested and it was way low even though she lives in sunny New Mexico. So she started looking for a good source. Turns out Nordic Naturals, our favorite supplier, just added this product to their line. So I am really glad to be offering this to all of you as well. Remember, we can add this to your shake subscription in a flash.

Please send questions and suggestions. I love hearing from you and truly want to help you do your program better.

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** Our Online Groups **


Most of us underestimate the importance of breakfast and try to do all the steps in the first week. When that doesn't work, we begin again. We concentrate on Step 1, breakfast, and find our lives begin to change.

The RadiantBreakfast list is a great place to learn the nuances of breakfast, build a strong foundation for the rest of the Steps, and find how helpful it is to share our journey with others. It is great for new people and those who have been on the program a long time. Sharing helps everyone.

The awesome thing is we all, Step 1 or Step 7, eat breakfast every single day. How cool is that?

We'd love it for you to sign up: We love new members!


Or come to the group page to find the one that will best support your program: http://www.radiantrecovery.com/list_serves.htm


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**The Shifts Are More Than We Think **
Kathleen DesMaisons, Ph.D.



Last week I shared the idea that changes come with doing the food. I did a little list about changes that I notice:

  • Blame and entitlement shift to taking responsibility and humility.
  • Despair shifts to hopefulness.
  • Anger shifts to humor.
  • Inadequacy shifts to empowerment.
  • Isolation shifts to connection.
  • Arguing changes to sharing.
  • Denial moves to disclosure.
I asked that we might talk about this on the community forum And talk you have. This is a testament to the dynamic in this community. WOW....so let me share some of your additions:

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Well that got me thinking.
Yes, all of those Isn't it exciting?
Also, for me I would say what first sprang to mind today:
  • Obsession shifts to organization and calm.
  • Dieting, rigidity and getting nowhere shifts to freedom, choice, listening, change.
  • Lethargy shifts to energy.
  • Apathy to engagement.
  • Anxiety to calm trust.
  • Confusion to clarity.
  • Scatteredness changes to groundedness.
  • Hopelessness to hopefulness.
  • Just hanging on to stability.
  • Not knowing one's own mind to surety.
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Yes, I loved this part of the newsletter.
A few things that I am experiencing:
  • Body stiffness and pain shifts to more flexibility and ease of movement.
  • Social defensiveness and distrust shifts to openness and curiosity.
  • Skepticism and pessimism shifts to fun and excitement.
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For me:
  • Fantasy is shifting to accepting reality.
  • Despair is shifting to hope.
  • Self-pity is shifting to self-care.
  • Chaos is shifting to peaceful structure.
  • Dieting is shifting to healing.
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Love this thread!
  • Weird really sore spots in my body shift to normal.
  • Muscle aches from exercise that go away with rest.
  • Howling empty wind inside to shifts to gentle music or gentle sadness.
  • Pulling in shifts to reaching out, or pulling in first but then reaching out soon after.
  • Stress over appearance shifts to peace and constant love.
  • Mean voices in my head shift to cheering ones.
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I was sitting in the chair at the dentist's office this morning waiting for my dental hygienist to come back into the room, and I was reflecting on this thread as I gazed out the window. Suddenly, one thing in particular hit me like a ton of bricks, because I've actually forgotten what my life used to feel like prior to RR three years ago. I no longer feel suicidal everyday.

Tears are rolling down my face as I write this and remember how awful I used to feel. The changes have been great, and I would like to share a few them:

  • Twenty-plus years of almost daily suicidal thoughts has shifted to daily feelings of peace and quiet inner joy.
  • Crying and freaking out when presented with difficult challenges has shifted to a calmer assessing of the problem and a more mature and successful way of coping.
  • A feeling of inner grayness has shifted to feeling like the sun is shining in my heart. (I'm not trying to be metaphorical here; on the majority of days I actually do feel like there is a sun shining in my heart)
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Two for me that that haven't been mentioned:

  • Living life "under the radar" shifts to being a presence in the world.
  • Avoiding all touch shifts to being a hugger.
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non-functional    

....shifts to

........functional    

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Now, here is something for ALL of you to reflect on. It used to be that these changes came after a number of years on the program. Something is happening. The healing is accelerating. I am hearing these things from people who have been doing the food for a much shorter time. Perhaps it is that we have so many more resources to support you. Perhaps we have more role models to guide the way. Mostly though, I think it is the sharing. I am so deeply affected by the voices of the people who really commit, who want what we have and do what we do.

Because I read all the lists, I am privileged to hear your voices in every stage. I hear these miracles daily and I think, wow, this is an incredible thing here. I love this. I am so grateful for your energy, your healing and your joy.


Here are the folks who are helping put the newsletter together:

Gretel, our webmaster, puts it all together.
David runs the Radiant Recovery® Store.
Selena provides the weekly Ambassadors column.
The banner photograph is by Patti Holden.


©2009 Kathleen DesMaisons. All rights reserved. You are free to use or transmit this article to your ezine or website as long as you leave the content unaltered, use this attribution: "By Kathleen DesMaisons, Ph.D. of Radiant Recovery®", and notify kathleen@radiantrecovery.com of the location. Please visit the Radiant Recovery® website at http://www.radiantrecovery.com for additional resources on sugar sensitivity and healing addiction.

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