I just looked up the Johann Hari quote and found the whole thing, which I'd never read. It moved me, because I see the relation to SS addicts .

“The opposite of addiction isn't sobriety. It's connection. It's all I can offer. It's all that will help [you] in the end. If you are alone, you cannot escape addiction. If you are loved, you have a chance. For a hundred years we have been singing war songs about addicts. All along, we should have been singing love songs to them.”

Sherri