oh you will be courageous Fiona you have demonstrated it so far! when you had starter for pudding I was that impressed with your bravery

I think the biochemistry balance helped me a lot, feeling steady meant I wasn't overwhelmed by the thought

and the biggest help has been the realisation that I don't have to explain a thing.

there are times - I don't eat chips for instance ( that's fries) and I will sometimes say, sorry, I don't like chips, so can I swap….. Don't like is something people understand

but mostly its me adopting the royal family mantra, its a good one, Never complain. Never explain...……….. I dont complain about their rubbish menu, instead...…. oh I do love mushrooms!!! I see you have them as a side dish, could you do me some as a starter? and I dont explain I just look mysterious yet Determined

Allison I can only now see Superb Owl, that's forever