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May 13, 2018

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Now you may be wondering what in God's name that picture is about. This is New Mexico. These are the guys that participated in making the miracle of water happen at Kathleen's house. When I moved in, there was a concrete square in the side yard. It was filled with trash and dirt and debris. I just thought it was a compost thingie and never really thought about it. Then about 8 years ago I had the thought that maybe there had once been a well. My neighbor down the street told me that all the houses had wells. So we dug it out. We dug down a long ways. Six feet. At the bottom was a pipe.

​​​​​​​I called some well people and they said, *yes, once it was a well, but not now. We can redo a well for $2000." That was not an option. My neighbor told me how to test for water.You drop a rope and see if it gets wet, LOL. I did and it did and it was just 24 feet down. Then the task was to get the water up. This took many people and many tries. This picture was from a day when the guys tried. They look happy, but it didn't work. Finally, last year, we got water.

But I didn't trust it. I thought maybe it was just a fluke. Yesterday, the guy who solved it last year stopped by. He opened the roof, climbed down the ladder, swept all the spider webs and the dirt out, turned on the valve to prime it. Then I plugged in the pump and out came water. Clear water, no fluoride, no pharmaceuticals, just water from between the rocks and under the ground. I ran the pump for 4 hours and all my lilac bushes were flooded for the first time in years. They were singing. It was a sacred afternoon. This water flowing is like grace. The picture is about asking for help, persisting, believing and then been so moved at the awe of it. Kinda like how I feel about our program.

I hope you read the transcripts I put up last week, That is where we are going. That is what chats are about. Sometimes play, and sometimes the vision of what we are really doing here.

We are ready for Ranch. People start coming in on Tuesday night. I am excited.

As promised, I have set up a new coaching group called Coaching - Directed. This is for people who would like more structured support in their process. Our first focus will be taking a look at how to structure a food plan around a new diabetes diagnosis.It actually is a wee bit breath taking. I don't think we expected it to be so powerful. Seems to be a lot of that going around.  Here is the link if you would like to join.

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"The foods you think of as providing comfort are the very things that have contributed to your problem."

 
Testimonial of the Week

Wow! The relationship analogy is wonderful! It really helps put in perspective the stages of the program. Even though I have been a member of YLD for over four years, I never really "got" it ... the relationship one develops with their own body. To be honest, I really did not care about it until recently. I just wanted a way to drop a few pounds.


Now I am seeing that this is a program of building blocks. And I can't get to the top row until I build up the foundation with the previous rows/steps. These building blocks are the road map to developing a relationship with my body and healing my out-of-whack chemistry. I would be willing to bet that anyone that wants to feel better NOW does not understand the building block concept. I know I sure didn't.


HEALING! What a miracle! Not glossing over, not artificially supporting, not running away from or putting a band aid over - actually healing! It is incredible to think that this can be ME if I simply follow the steps and have faith when I can't "see" clearly or understand much.


I have not healed yet so I am finding the BE discussion a bit out of my "focus". I understand it to a certain extent and I see how a tremendous amount of my energy has unknowingly gone to spiking it. I see it as the last step in the progression.


Last night I went to bed without finishing my journal for the day. As I lay there I thought of the building blocks of this program and I thought of standing myself up on my date to get to know myself. To heal myself. I got out of bed and wrote - gladly! I want the days of clear and singing! I believe it is there waiting for me. Kathleen promised!


Gee, I don't even know if I addressed the topic ... that's how foggy I feel but I had a great time writing out what I have been trying to put into words for a few days! It would be interesting to take this class again in a year from now - I bet it would be a different experience!


Diana

 
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I just want to lose weight. Is this the right place for me?
It is the best place in the world for you. You won't get this information anywhere else, I guarantee. Make sure to come to chat.


I am just starting the steps. Does it make sense to join now?

Yes, it does.  We have found that the people who come to chats do the best with the steps. The connection in chat is awesome.


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Some More Ideas about Autism
Kathleen DesMaisons, PhD 
   

I wrote this article a number of years ago. Since then I have worked with many, many people who are on the continuum. I am fascinated by what seems to be the very high number of sugar sensitive people who also deal with these issues.  This past week, I came across an amazing article that described why people on the continuum often have so much anxiety. They process stress differently. It has such huge implications for us. It also makes me realize that my musings from 10 years ago were pretty on target.  I will be thinking about this lots more, but here is a chance for you to stretch your brain a bit.


https://www.autismspeaks.org/science/science-news/brain-imaging-produces-new-insights-autism-anxiety-connection


And here is the original publication that Autism Speaks is referencing:


Face processing in autism spectrum disorders: from brain regions to brain networks

Jason S. Nomi1,* and  Lucina Q. Uddin1,2,*


And my original thoughts:


A number of you have asked me about autism and Aspergers Syndrome and what you might do nutritionally? While I am not an expert in autism, I can outline some of the research that is being done and share my reflections on how it might fit together. You have the lived experience. Perhaps we can explore our way to some working solutions.


I have often wondered about autism. A couple of years ago I got a gorgeous rescue golden retriever. Her people gave her up because she was a behavioral problem. I took her and then observed. She would not connect, made no eye contact, and spent her days immobile with her head under the bed. She collected all the dog toys and hoarded them with her there under the bed. She could not cope with new experiences. She was stubborn, willful and terrified of rain and thunder. I worked with her behaviorally for 6 months with no change made.


Eventually, I took her to a homeopathic vet to see if he might offer some perspective. We met for an hour. He said, I think she is autistic. He had a remedy for her, but had to order it and said it would take 2 weeks. I figured while I was waiting, I would play with her food and see what happened. I did and in 3 days, this dog was transformed. She connected, she started wagging her tail, she started to play with the other dogs. Six months more and she was in a loving home being funny and loving. She is at times a little quirky, but they adore her and see her as a normal dog. The transformation got my attention.


Science does not know what autism is or how to treat it. Basically, researchers admit that they are trying stuff to see if it makes any difference. But as I started reading the literature, I found some intriguing connections.


Autistic children generally have high levels of serotonin in their blood platelets, but the level of free serotonin was low. This means that somehow the serotonin that is in the blood gets bound to the platelets but extra does not float around. This may mean high serotonin in blood cells, but low serotonin in brain. [think about this in terms of that article and not being able to turn off the distress cues]


One study suggests that this early high level could have an impact on the infant brain. Small babies do not have a formed blood-brain barrier; so high levels of serotonin could cross over ad knock out or overload the brain. This would mean a dysfunction in the serotonin receptor system. Fewer receptor sites, or impaired receptor binding, could account for the strange combination of no impulse control and obsessive brain lock we see in autistic children. At any rate, think of impaired serotonin function in your children. It is complex and not really clear, but there is no question that serotonin in some form is implicated.


Research also comments on the fact that autistic children have high beta-endorphin levels. The literature does not reference baseline beta-endorphin but talks about an exaggerated stress response. Measuring beta-endorphin evokes stress, so the high levels they see may be a function of the exaggerated stress reaction. Stress evokes BE, and generally serotonin modulates the spike. If the serotonin system is impaired, there could be nothing to tone the beta-endorphin spike down so there would be a constant spiking and crashing.  [I have to go back to my original sources to put this all together]


Higher BE levels are associated with difficulty in bonding. BE is designed to kill pain, it creates numb. This can be life saving in a crisis, but it does not bode well for bonding. Children treated with a BE blocker actually had fewer autistic symptoms. Researchers used a drug called Naltrexone that sits in beta-endorphin receptor sites and does not allow the heightened BE reaction to charge the system. But it does nothing to heal it.


I began thinking, what about food? What do we know and how might we design a food program for your kids. The variables we are working with:

  1. An impaired serotonin system
  2. A heightened stress response
  3. Heightened levels of BE in response to the exaggerated stress response

OK, this simplifies the task. Here's what we want to do:

  1. Have no blood sugar spiking and crashing. These evoke stress. These children need to eat every 3 hours. Three meals, on time, 2 daytime snacks and an evening snack before bed.
  2. No BE spiking from sugar and white things
  3. Increased omega 3 fatty acids to repair the brain. The brain is made of omega 3 fatty acids. If your childs brain does not have an adequate supply, it will be brittle rather than supple. And a brittle brain overreacts even more.

What does this mean in terms of food?


Increase the protein to make sure that the brain has the amino acids it needs to make serotonin in the brain factory. This means regular and consistent protein. And yes, I know that most of your children only want to eat carbs. Think whey protein power. Identify what proteins your kids are willing to try and use those creatively.


Give your children a children's formula of fish oil. Check the DHA formulation we have in the store. I love Nordic Naturals Products and think they are safe and very appropriate for your children.


Ultimately, you will want to move your kids to a food plan that has no wheat, no hard-core dairy (whey protein isolate powder is ok because it does not have casein), and no sugar. Get a subscription to the magazine Living Without (www.livingwithout.com). They are great about the no wheat, no dairy part. They do not understand about the no sugar part.


Wheat and dairy contain opioid peptides and raise BE levels more. Sugar does the same. Obviously you will not do all of this at once. But you can take out things like soda and move incrementally towards the goal.


Now, at this point, you are probably either laughing or recoiling in horror. You may be thinking, Kathleen, that is a joke, my child only eats 2 things. I realize we have some major logistics to get through. I am very pragmatic. But, if you knew that putting your child on a protein/veggies/oil food plan with a timed evening carb would create a profound improvement, wouldnt you wan to at least try? I know you have spent thousands of dollars and have tried 100 other things. We have nothing to lose. Lets share and do problem solving together.


And, of course, it is critical that YOU do the steps. You cannot even think of making these changes with your child unless you are totally steady. Lets do it together.

 

Here is the Annie Lane column that brought so many of you here.


Dear Annie: I read with interest the letter from "Weird, Stupid or Selfish?" – whose husband eats all the decorative candy she puts out. His inability to resist sugar resonated with me, as I have sugar sensitivity and have engaged in exactly the same behaviors. I simply could not resist sugar.


After years of struggling and dieting and sitting in work meetings obsessing about the doughnuts instead of the topic at hand, I discovered the book "Potatoes Not Prozac," by Kathleen DesMaisons. Her theory is that people who are sugar sensitive have brains that respond differently to sugar, alcohol and refined carbs and that what they eat and when they eat it have a huge effect on them. She shows how to rebalance blood sugar levels, serotonin and beta-endorphins through small lifestyle changes and offers the latest research, free online support and seven steps to change your life. It is not about willpower; it’s about biochemistry, which her program can slowly improve, just one tiny step at a time, with amazing results.


I have been sugar-free for six years now, lost 25 pounds and never gained any of it back. I can go to dinner with family and don’t even think twice when someone orders dessert. I don’t have cravings, and sugar is no longer on my radar. I am more focused and more tolerant, and the daily mood swings are gone. The woman who wrote to you could suggest to her husband that he check out http:// radiantrecovery.com to see whether he does have sugar sensitivity. At the very least, she would be better informed about this condition. – Happy Without Sugar


Dear Happy Without Sugar: I hadn’t considered that health issues might explain

her husband’s behavior. In fact, I hadn’t even heard of sugar sensitivity.

Thanks for opening my eyes to the condition! I’d like to encourage all readers to talk to their doctors if they find themselves compulsively eating sugary snacks.

—Email questions to dearannie@creators.com


ANNIE LANE

 
 
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