Looking out KD's window at rain
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Aug 5 2018,

Hi {!firstname_fix},

I am glad you enjoyed my story about the leashes last week. Here is a picture of rain in the desert. This is water that seeps down into the water table. This is life. Hmm, but you might think this picture is grim. I know you will tell me :)

This week I have been diligently working on the updated revision of Potatoes Not Prozac. I have been reading a lot of science. Things like *Mu Opioid Receptor Genetic Variation and Heroin Addiction.* My goodness has brain science advanced since my last formal pass through it. Putting together the science and our lived experience is one of my most exciting things in the world, so it has been a happy week for me.

I bought a new iPad, another shocking update. I got a pencil thing for it as well. This means when I get the file of the Mu Opioid Receptor article, I can make notes IN COLOR and comment on what I am seeing. Technology is breathtaking. And it means I can work from my bed and watch the sun come up on my right as I am drawing in color on mu opioid receptors articles.

I have also gathered all the information I wanted for the screen addiction class. Gathered and read and it made me realize that I will be offering a rather unique approach to it. I think the juxtaposition of the PnP redo and this new class is interesting. I was about 25 years ahead of the curve with PnP and am certainly ahead of the curve on the topic of screen addiction. I didn't know that until I read the literature. If you are wondering if it might be a problem for you, or if you know it is a problem for you but are not quite sure what to do, this is a good class to take.Great information, no judgment and lots of solutions.

Screen addiction is an interesting addiction. You cannot just *stop* it any more than you can just stop eating to heal sugar addiction. Screens can be lifesaving portals or deadly black holes that suck you into darkness. I don't think most people in the addiction field have figured this out. But *doing the food* is a great model for tackling this particular *extra*. All that is to say, I think it will be a nice class.

I will start the class on Aug 8th. It will be done by email and you can be anywhere in the world to take it. The interaction will be ongoing so you do not have to be somewhere at a specific time and place. The class will run for 4 weeks and the cost is $99.

The written material will follow after the conversation so it can draw from the experience, strength and hope of those who go through the process.
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Classes are either done on the step lists, in YLD or by Kathleen in special classrooms. Classes are done by email, so there are no specific time constraints to be present.


WORKING WITH KATHLEEN

I feel very strongly about offering you a way to work with me directly. I have set up a whole range of options for you to do that - going from private coaching to being involved in small groups. This link will show you all the choices.
Coaching Apprentice is open to people on steps 1-3 who are starting their program. Coaching Skilled is for people who are on step 7 and want to look at other issues more in-depth.
Coaching Return to Radiance is for people who have worked the program successfully and left for whatever reason and decided to come back
Signature Coaching is for those who want to work individually with Kathleen in a 90-day process. Signature is the top of the line. All who have done it talk about their lives being changed.

Another option is setting up a one hour assessment and then making a decision based on that conversation. And you can always call 505-345-3737 and ask me about how each one works.

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"The fun thing will be to see how your feelings emerge as you do the program."

Testimonial of the Week

*That point in a meal full of vegetables and best browns when my body sighs contentedly and feels well fed.


For me this is the serotonin feeling. Cushioned, contented and calm.

I find the image of serotonin as insulator helpful. It feels as if serotonin assists in getting the messages through without distractions, and stops my nerves making electrical links where they shouldn't or shorting out.

Kath

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We have these little snack holders. They are great for school and go right in a backpack. they are great for work as you can put them right in your desk. I love mine.


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Lunch Protein Ideas
Bowl of Hummus

This is another post Mosaic did on the forum. Charity asked about lunch protein ideas. I loved what she had to say and printed this for the inside door of my cupboard.


Great thread topic thanks Charity! Have you discovered some nice easy ones ? I think Easy is the top criteria for me!


I am remembering step three. Second go round..... ( don't remember much about first go ) I found Lunch the most difficult of all. What to choose? it seems crazy to remember I didn't think there was Anything to eat !


I am sure, what helped most was the planned - overs idea. A very new idea to me. Leftovers ? Never had any Ate it all LOL. But _ I could double up my usual recipes and freeze half, in serving sizes. That was particularly useful with things like

  • chilli
  • meatballs in tomato sauce
  • chicken stew
  • chicken satay
  • shepherds pie
  • moussaka
  • any sort of curry, including dhal

I still do that all the time *blushing here * to the extent that in the freezer they go and my freezer gets overstocked. I have to remember to take them out and use them LOL.

Another thing I freeze most successfully for other peoples lunchboxes all the time are

  • fish stew and rice
  • oven baked risotto, vegetarian and meat versions
  • Paella
  • enchilada
  • ww Chinese noodles stir fry with vegetables/meat
  • need access to a micro though ….

my current favourite lunches, probably because the weather is so hot

  • nibble plate : cold meat saved from sunday roast, cheese, olives - so whatevers in the fridge, I adore the variety
  • cooked saved chicken drumsticks/ baked with chilli and lime, or piri piri
  • soft boiled eggs and some cheese alongside
  • Quiche, Lorraine or mushroom
  • chef salad with supermarket meat like peppered roast beef or Wiltshire ham, boiled egg slices, cheese. I like bagged salad at lunch , is more expensive, but worth it for grabbability
  • cold sausage and cold roasted red peppers​​​​​​​

I remember once in Chat, Kathleen suggested to set a timer if about to get engrossed something. Not a bad idea, as in my step three I had no hunger signal to remind me

( perpetually hungry) I sort of ate by the clock for a long time


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Radiant Living
Radiant Living is geared to looking at Step 7 issues. I am in the process of the revision of Potatoes not Prozac and am adding a fair amount of information on *radiant living* which is really Step 7. This is where we are looking at a Step 7 life with all its quirks. This means feelings, healing old trauma and remodeling our bodies.
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I just want to lose weight. Is this the right place for me?
It is the best place in the world for you. You won't get this information anywhere else, I guarantee. Make sure to come to chat. I am going to expand what we are doing in chat and will outline it in the article section below.


I am just starting the steps. Does it make sense to join now?

Yes, it does. We have found that the people who come to chats do the best with the steps. The connection in chat is awesome. You get a chance to talk with the old timers, you can ask questions and I am right there to guide you, It really is an incredible opportunity.


Here are the topics for YLD chat in August


AUGUST: Fat Terror


August 1st: Definition of Fat Terror

Aug 8th: How Fat Terror affects you

Aug 15th: Healing Fat Terror

August 22nd: Restriction and how it connects to Fat Terror

August 29th: Cellular Fat Terror


If you are not a member yet, come and join us. If you are a current member and want to join us in the new chat room, come to the landing page. We will send you the pass words after you join.


If you would like to join us in YLD, come find us here. ​​​​​​​
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Vitamins

Kathleen DesMaisons, PhD

The vitamins you start taking in Step 4 will be helpful, but dont forget that the most crucial element of this program is eating food. Food provides vitamins naturally and promotes healing. Preparing food and meals provides much more than that. Buying, preparing and eating nutritious food requires specific behavior changes and makes you become conscious about what you are eating. Most people who have relied on sugar for a long time have very little experience with the type of behavioral change required for planning meals. Doing your food plan calls for you to make plans for regular meals and follow through on them. It means learning to devise alternative plans of action (like figuring out what and when to eat when your schedule suddenly changes), which reinforces flexibility and creative problem-solving. Doing a full food plan rather than just taking vitamins and hoping they will make you healthy also teaches you to make discriminating judgments about what is good specifically for you. All of these things are incredibly self-empowering.


As you will see, what you initiate with the food plan will have a far bigger impact than just eating three times a day. You will learn to pay attention to your body in a consistent way and make a connection between how you feel and what you are eating. As your food gets stable, you will become more and more interested in what works for your body and your needs. As you eat three meals a day at regular intervals and take your vitamins, you may find yourself getting impatient. This happened with a client of mine named Mary.


Mary had been doing her food journal and eating three meals pretty much every day. But she was getting impatient. She wanted to go faster. She wanted to do the rest of the steps right away. She was even ready to completely stop using sugar, she told me. And couldn't she also stop using caffeine now, she asked. Mary felt she was done with Steps 1 and 2. She didn't want to keep her food journal anymore because she was eating three meals most days. She wanted to be in charge of her own plan.


Mary confronted me with a dilemma. I wanted to support her in taking charge of her own process but at the same time I knew from my work with other clients how important it is to follow the steps in sequence. I stuck to my guns. I encouraged Mary to continue her food journal and master having three meals every single day before she made any other changes. I knew that doing this would create the stability Mary needed for making the changes called for in Steps 3 through 7. Skip the first two steps (or stop doing them) and the process will not work.


Remember, it absolutely does not matter how long it takes to master each of these steps. You, like Mary, will get to negotiate the order in which you make change after you have done the first three steps. But always begin with the journal and keep doing it. It is your key to understanding where you started. Without a food journal, the process is just talk. It is a waste of your time to try to do the whole program and the changes it involves without doing the journal. You will not have to do a journal forever, but having it by your side as you master your food plan adds a crucial and powerful tool to your work.

Here is the Annie Lane column that brought so many of you here.


Dear Annie: I read with interest the letter from "Weird, Stupid or Selfish?" – whose husband eats all the decorative candy she puts out. His inability to resist sugar resonated with me, as I have sugar sensitivity and have engaged in exactly the same behaviors. I simply could not resist sugar.


After years of struggling and dieting and sitting in work meetings obsessing about the doughnuts instead of the topic at hand, I discovered the book "Potatoes Not Prozac," by Kathleen DesMaisons. Her theory is that people who are sugar sensitive have brains that respond differently to sugar, alcohol and refined carbs and that what they eat and when they eat it have a huge effect on them. She shows how to rebalance blood sugar levels, serotonin and beta-endorphins through small lifestyle changes and offers the latest research, free online support and seven steps to change your life. It is not about willpower; it’s about biochemistry, which her program can slowly improve, just one tiny step at a time, with amazing results.


I have been sugar-free for six years now, lost 25 pounds and never gained any of it back. I can go to dinner with family and don’t even think twice when someone orders dessert. I don’t have cravings, and sugar is no longer on my radar. I am more focused and more tolerant, and the daily mood swings are gone. The woman who wrote to you could suggest to her husband that he check out http:// radiantrecovery.com to see whether he does have sugar sensitivity. At the very least, she would be better informed about this condition. – Happy Without Sugar


Dear Happy Without Sugar: I hadn’t considered that health issues might explain

her husband’s behavior. In fact, I hadn’t even heard of sugar sensitivity.

Thanks for opening my eyes to the condition! I’d like to encourage all readers to talk to their doctors if they find themselves compulsively eating sugary snacks.

—Email questions to dearannie@creators.com


ANNIE LANE

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